H@nd iN HaNd 4eVer^^

2008-01-06T02:35:00.000-08:00

Yoohooooo!!!

We r moving ^^

Introducing : 2008 Memories of U♥Me

2008-01-04T21:08:00.000-08:00

Finallyyyyy i got my straight 10 hrs sleep!!! Hehe... it feels so good!!
*hug smurf darling who's sleeping rite now... beib beib ... how bout if we make our new year resolutions?? *wink2* hehe...

2007-12-30T04:13:00.000-08:00

*droool slurp:p

hmmmmmmm ...

Anyway i m still waiting for my passport. Taiwanese embassy said that it will b in my hand by the end of december. O well tomorrow i hope:).

To set aside of my passport, i ll put my own list ... to do list so to say:
1.strolling around wif my baby ... seeing sightings and especially shopping:). I m just too excited to experience chinese new year in taiwan
2.culinary adventures
3.visiting her office^^ ... i hope i wun get lost hehe
4.want to take revenge over my sleep time ... i havent slept well in these weeks:(
5.many things more to put in this list ... but all i want is to b wif my Baby*hug.

Cant wait for being wif U Honey ... pray to God every night for that^^

wif love,io

2007-12-29T00:54:00.000-08:00

The List of must-eat-foods in Taiwan with my baby

-Beef Noodle Master Chef ( the noodle is so chewy n fresh )
-Takoyaki ( my baby's forever fave food in d world )
- Ou Lin Tepanyaki
- Shabu Buffet (esp for d seafoods including king crab!!)
- Hongkong YamCha
- Chinese Dimsum Dessert
- Sushi Express (it's cheaper here than in Indonesia or Europe)
- Korean Buffet
- Thailand cuisine buffet
- Lu wei near my house .. dunno wat's d english lar..
- 東山鴨頭
- Mister Donut
- Chinese foods in general
- Grillen
- 疆母鴨
- Peking Grilled Duck
- my fave chicken grilled + d fries hehe..
- Choco pudding milk tea
- Caramel milk tea
- Brown sugar milk tea coffee
- Mochi ^^
- Smelly Tofu
- Japanese Buffet
- Nightmarket delicacies
...too much to mention lol...

We r the heaven of fooooodddddsssssss *slurpppp*

2007-12-29T00:31:00.000-08:00

I see someone cute start to blog at the end of this year :P
Well... nice to share blog again ;D

Em thinking of my new year resolutions ... quite much ... but cant promise myself tat i can do it perfectly.

Let's see ...

* always be and more faithfull to Him
* Never stop thanking Him for all d blessings
* Read more novels or books ... i stopped reading for a while since i always run out of time everyday ( Firstly, i shud finish my never-finished-novels in hand : The Canterbury Tales & The Eldest)
* keep my room tidy -____-
* n oso clean up d ceiling too
* have a new wardrobe .. since the old one cant keep my clothes any longer hehe
* snap more pictures ;D
* work my ass off as a translator n teacher
* be more patient towards my evil students
* be more inspired create new designs
* come up with more innovative ideas n ways to teach Jade ( She is the manager of HP&Dell)
* save more $$
* Hope we'r gonna have a great vacay ^^
* Be back home .. re-united to my fam
* Come up with new future plan
* know exactly wat em going to do for the next year (2009)
* be much more sweeter to my baby ( eventhough i am sweet enough rite now hehe)
* perfectfully be and act like an adult *sigh*
* no bullshitting in d blog no more lol sooo... -stopped-

2007-12-26T11:55:00.000-08:00

Yes, we are Baby ... we deserve to celebrate xmas, new years, our bday and so on together. Cant wait to be honest to celebrate it like what we did in summer 05*wink2

Anyway i suppose to learn tonight but apparently i didnt have the mood to do so:(
I thought of getting rid off my suitcase out of my room for a while haha ... i hope it will work else my mind will b in taiwan:p

Well i hope 08 runs like the way it should b ... smooth for both of us. Many things happened for the last 1.5 years. But i know that things would work out somehow, keep prayin that and Thx God it did work out perfectly:D
Cant stop thanking that this year we get good gift^^
Everything turns out well, isn't it Baby? he3

Thx God for U
Thx God for Us
Thx God for Everything

*smurf

PS: I hope its not a crime for doing only three things today; miss You, miss You and miss You:)

2007-12-23T19:34:00.000-08:00

2007 comes to an end :)

as I look back, and i see... 80% of my last 2 years wish list came true :)
I thank God for d nonstop blessings ... for all the strength to face obstacles one by one ...for d miraculously surprises n for d lil sweet things through d year ;D

I never thought tat 2007 wud be ended sweetly like tis.

Cant wait for another new year ^^

Btw .. i havent made a wish list at all, have i ??

so.. my simple wishes wud be like this :
" for the next time ... i wud like to have our x mas', new years n bdays together always ( we deserve tat after 4 years being apart)"

Em not greedy .. ^^ only 1 wish for tis year hehe...

So .. no matter how long tat wud take , i'll wait ^^

Merry X'mas & Happy new Year ... everyone!

2007-12-23T11:01:00.000-08:00

48 days to go:D

I'm looking at my suitcase right now ... cant wait to drag it to Frankfurt hehe. O well i need a bit of patient i'm afraid:)

Honey i'm coming ... *hug

-from io with Biggest Love-

PS: I miss U soooo much

2007-12-22T08:49:00.000-08:00

Finally ... i applied my visa to taiwan hehe. Thx to bro in law i didnt have to buy trains ticket. He gave a lift to frankfurt and drove me back to Karlsruhe,which is 20 min away from my town.

The person in charge in Taiwanese embasy said that in couple of days it will be sent back to me ... wohoooo:D Just cant wait ...

O well i ll just relax until then and do some study ... exams r coming and after that i ll b far away in eastern part of earth with my Baby:)
I hope that it wun rain much at that time ... AMEN to that hehe.

Btw Sweety do U know that i miss U today
I do ... so very much
Second feels like minutes
Minute feels like hours
Hour feels like days

I m longing to hold U again
Everytime i hold U,all i can say is TADAIMA (trnslt:I m home)^^

-from io wif biggest Luv-

Smurf Smurfette

2007-12-21T08:30:00.000-08:00

Dear Smurfette,

Each time i miss You, a star smurfs down from the sky. So, if You smurfed up at the sky and smurf it dark with no stars, it is all Your fault. You made me smurf You too much:)

-Handsome Smurf-

2007-12-21T08:09:00.000-08:00

"Apakah dia penyabar?" ... one of the fs bulletin quiezes tat i got days ago

Actually... i've just realized, he's been so patient to me in these past 4 years. He hardly gets mad at me, he even cant do tat hehe...
He never thinks twice to hug me n hold my hands through my hardest time.

Beib.. gawat d... em even getting worst, i cant sleep without our pillow talk or shud i say "my baby's lulaby" hehe .. call me romantically crazy or watever...

I Heart you ^^

X-mas wish list

2007-12-16T03:05:00.000-08:00

hehe its been ages since i wrote my last blog here ... i feel kinda nostalgic:). But anyways ... good to b back:)

Its been rough years for me(us) ... but thx God all those thingy things finally end. I got back what i need in my life and it feels soooo GOOD:)
Now at the last days of 07-especially Christmas-i want to make some wish list for next year. I pray that 08 will start good and b a joyfull year for me and ofc us^^

First thing first .... lets move on with the list hehe
Here goes*smurf:

1. want to be with my Baby
2. want to be with my Baby
3. want to be with my Baby
.
.
.

He3 ... simple wish list ... in fact thats all i need and want in this life ... together and b with my Baby in harmony n melody*smurf

-Handsome Smurf-

2007-12-14T08:07:00.000-08:00

Em so addicted to choco ice cream milk tea lately...
I drink it once... n i wannit more n more lol... it feels like a lil orgasm in my mouth lol haohao *hiperbole

Btw, not every cafe has it as perfect as "Hei Cuan" cafe in Ba De-Tao Yuan.
It's texture is creamy n thick ... not too sweet ... n d dark choco ice cream brings perfection to d whole part.

yummy yummy yummy...

2007-12-12T06:28:00.000-08:00

Aaaaaaaaa Em so high today lol... i have no class to teach tonight ^^ ... i have lotsa time to spend to pamper myself n oso to pamper my baby ;D

I replied all d messages tat my frens sent to me ...

Iren, my cousin shared her first experiences to be a mommy. Her baby Oscar is adorable!! She told me how tired yet enjoyable being mommy. Ngidamnya jg ga aneh2... cuma breakfast di hotel... on d other hand her sister, Filda who's oso pregnant too recently ... ngidamnya keliling ITC.

Em wondering... kok enak ya ngidamnya haha... i shud plan my own "ngidam style" ... ngidam LV or gucci perhaps lol ... or tiffany?? lol ... mommy's always on d TOP priority, isnt it??? lalalala...

2007-12-07T22:14:00.000-08:00

Im so exhausted! Maybe u got bored listen to me saying tat words over and over again... but in fact ... i am.
Imagine tat i have a full time work ... and 3 students to teach outside my main job. So i pretty run out time for my private moment here.
I do realize my friends r also one of my treasures. Im so sad n confused when i gotta reject their invitation to hang out at d weekend. I need more 12 hours for a day at weekend!!! So i would have a straight 8 hrs sleep , 4 hrs to teach my students , couple hrs to edit pics... several hrs to spend with my frens n another several hrs to spend with my darling :) withough getting exhauted.

It's not easy to manage my time between friends and lover, esp when ur lover is not around + timezone differences. It's killing me softly lol...
I love my frens... I love to hang out with them...
However, i cant just spend the whole day just for having fun with them like i used to. I need to spend some quality time with him, esp in d weekend coz we have so lil time to share in d daily.
or maybe... d fact is... i love being at my room lol... em so freak!

Call me selfish or even freak or watever...
I am ...

I am a computer freak .. i can be in front of my lappie for hours n obviously... cant live without it :P
When im online, it doesnt mean tat im online only for my baby ... i do LOTS of things when em online.

5 days in d crowded ... i do need to be alone.

Me with my lovely gadget ^^

2007-12-06T07:30:00.000-08:00

Random pals : Is tat ur new bf ?? or the previous one??
Me : haeh??? have i said tat i broke up??
Random pals : izzit??
Me : there is no new one or previous one ... it's been always him :)

2007-11-29T06:35:00.000-08:00

... in 2 hours, tat will be 69 days smurf left ;D
em missing my darling smurf badly :) especially today we both r so damn busy n hardly have quality time today. Well ... absence makes the heart grow fonder, isnt it??

2007-11-22T00:19:00.000-08:00

:) Em counting days ... to have a brand new blog rite on 2009

Gonna start another new year ... more sweet memories ... + more time n mood to spend for blogging perhaps hehe

2007-10-03T06:31:00.000-07:00

Finally!!! I got the video of us ^^ 2 years ago :)
Enjoy ... the dance hihi...

Danke beib!

2007-06-10T02:05:00.000-07:00

It's been a long time isnt it??? Time flows too fast and i hardly catch up everything in once and write it down here.

Let's see...

It started 2 months ago ...

at the beginning of April ... i went back home to have my vacay for a month ... a very yummy April.
I met my long lost dear cousins; Mimi. We have so much in common and it was so fun to spend 2 months togetha with her.
We brought our grandma to Singapore and took care of her there for a week. We'r totally nannysitter and got exhausted togetha (imagine tat we gotta push our nanny on the wheels around singapore -_- , from Rafles city to Bugis junction without mrt , around vivo city , from sengkang to everywhere)... lol ... hardly enjoyed Singapore like we always do.
Fortunatelly, got a free day to spent with my highschool fwen; Handy. We'd never met each other since our high school graduation and then after 7 years ... he changed a lot. He's super smart but not kinda nerdy and has a great sense of humor. We had 2 days great dinner ... (slurp masi kebayang2 ikan pari bakar, udang bakar, kangkung blacan, sate kambing .... *ngiler2 and crab apa itu loh yg di Thai express!)
Hehe .. thx Han for the treat and the funnnnn ;D

I'll upload the pics soon... since i left the digi cam at home -_- ... i gotta wait for my bro going back to malaysia and transfer all the pics back to me.

Eniwei ... i spent my 2 weeks left at home. I accompanied my mom, dad n sis everywhere ;)
I was soo spoilt at home ... and got complained by my sis who's jealous lol... she's such a funny sista n u never get bored when u spend times with her. We share secrets, took a bath togetha , sharin' beauty tips (she's 12 oredy), she told me everythin bout her crush ... ourghhh miss her a lot rite now!

On May , I went back to Taiwan ... and Mimi oso came along with me. We spent such a fab 2 weeks togetha. She lurvvvvessss Taiwan!!! She loves the vacational spots ... she loves the food (except smelly tofu) and she loves to shop!!!

2 weeks later we went back to Indonesia (again) and my boss oso visited Indonesia with me. There's no fun anymore T_T . Gotta work to do sum interviews for the recruitments.

gtg ... cant write this any longer ...

ciao

2007-03-08T06:06:00.000-08:00

Love walks right in and changes my point of view. It's not necessarily a romantic, passionate love, either -- affection, happiness and enthusiasm are also forms of love. They help liven up my day-to-day tasks.

2007-03-07T20:33:00.000-08:00

Si manez kuh tambah maniez aja dr hari ke hari *wink2 ... hehe

eh ... must see this video ... freakin funny!!!! i laughed my ass out n rolled on the floor while watching this video hehe

2007-02-28T07:39:00.000-08:00

Happy happy happy ^^

hiehie ... no other words d ;D

Hope this piggy year will always be happy like this + money comes along in it hehe

*mwoacchhh*

2007-02-26T23:29:00.000-08:00

Uda 2 hari ngantor cuma nonton film Korea : My Girl bareng bos :P
Kerjaan uda dikelarin sblom libur sincia n skg malah binun lom dpt kasus baru sampe mg dpn hehe ... asik kan???

*happy*

2007-02-23T09:58:00.000-08:00

*cenenggggg *

hehe ... ada denkkkkk alasan e ... hehe poko nya hari2 ane ga bakal jamuran lagi d!!! hahaha

Gih nemenin si Mae yg lagi stress2 nih ... si mae sempet nanyain cenel mirc mana yg masi idup... eke mana tau (>.<) ... dah lama abis ga maen mirc ^^ , soalnya ga seasik jaman #indo-jerman dulu lagi

Anak2 mirc skg otak ama moralnya uda merosot ke selangkangan ... it's like tat their brain is inside their balls :P hehe ... awal2 slalu "asl pls", trus kalimat ke dua uda " cyber yuk!"

Lol ... trus seinget g si ndom pernah ngajakin masuk #indocina d bulan2 lalu ... well ga nyangka ternyata masi exists , server nya dibeli ama atu ce named ling (lupa2 inget) ... trus para op nya kayanya mendewa kan dia geto, kalo online mesti di sembah2 / dijilat2 pantat nya hahahaha ...
geez... get a life!!!

-suka duka mantan anak irc-

2007-02-21T10:24:00.000-08:00

Massyoolohhh ane bosen abissss ude!!!

Seharian g edit2 pic ... cukup memuaskan sih :) ... but ga nyangka kalo makan waktu selama itu cuma buat 2 pics hiks...

Si papih aka s3t4n-n4k4| juga lagi stress , gara2 mesti bikinin skripsi dd nya :P ... well , nasib jadi anak sulung yah gini!!! eke jg neh , mentang2 d anak sulung ... ada apa2 slalu mesti tekelin urusan pr adek2 ... istilah nya wipe their @$$ lah!

Selama taun2 terakhir ini yeh, uda berapa peta indonesia n sumatera yg gua gambar ... apalagi burung garuda!!! (bottomline : g punya 2 adek!)
Burung garuda emang burung yg paling ngebetein buat digambar! Bulu2 aje mesti diitung n di balance in ama kiri kanan nya ... arghhh
Maunya sih gambar burung yg laen hehe ... tapi kasian tar bu guru e ngiler .. piye ..????
Hiehie jangan forno duyu... burung dara goreng kok!! kan gampang tuh digambar wes entek toh bulu ne hehehe

Adoh adoh error ah malem2 ...

2007-02-21T10:09:00.000-08:00

Huk ... i start to miss my gal gang!!!

Btw, eke punya 2 ikan adopsi hehe ... punya nya zoolay tuh! Hari pertama di kamar gua tuh ikan uda bikin g stress aje ... masa seharian kaga mo makan :( , ikan2 g ndiri aja selalu makan dengan barbar.

Kan ga enak ati kalo ikan zolay mati di tangan g sedangkan pas g balik indo ikan g sehat buger gendut dirawatin jule hehe . So kesel2, g puasain aja 1 hr 1 malem :P trus besok2 nya tuh ikan langsung makan dgn lahap hiahaia ... caranya kejem sih, but efektip!!! sekarang ikan2 jule isa bersukaria kali liat eke pulang kamar hehe ...

Senang nyaaaaa pulang2 di sambut 4 ikan dengan sukacita ^^

2007-02-20T07:36:00.000-08:00

Ternyata nasi putih itu enak ;D ... I mean just plain rice. 4 hr nonstop makan mie bikin perut g berontak (>.<) ... br sadar nasi putih made in taiwan itu enakh... ga heran oom eke mpe bela2in bawa pulang ...

hm... besok uda bakal pusing cr menu makan dr nasi deh hiks...

2007-02-19T09:56:00.000-08:00

Urgh... ane ude mulai bosen d liburan nya kebanyakan -_-
Ga tau diri banged yeh, pas ga libur tereak2 minta libur, uda dikasi libur 11 hr... br hari ke 3 aja uda kebosenan.

Ga niat edit pic... mo pegi jg males bakalan macet seh ...
Tnyt bukan g doank yg kebosenan, si aris ma si ajiz uda mo gila juga hehehe so we made an appointment buat makan shabu2 tadi siang ;D

Ya uda d asik jg ngobrol2 ^^ ... Well eke lon pernah cerita jelas yeh kalo gawe kita2 anak indo ampir smua sama disini ... which is manpower agency :) Perusahaan bole mirip2 but kerjaan kita masing2 beda2 kok walo intinya sama : ngurusin TKI TKA n para employer nya

Setiap kali ngumpul anak2 indo slalu d kita gosipin wats in di kalangan pembokat kite hehe ...
misal todae :

* Eke sharing kl barusan ngirim pulang pembokat scr paksa gara2 tuh pembokat (named Pujiati) ngesex diluar. Si aris langsung d tereak " loe ga berprikemanusiaan!!!" ...
But i got the points : 1. tuh pembokat pas g sita hp nya pucet isinya ga jauh2 dr "bobo" ama co ... trus i found out co nya bukan cuma atu!!! salah atu co nya ada yg Thailand (>.<)
2. Kalo tuh pembokat kena penyakit kelamin aje ... majikan nya jg terancem kena... loe bayangin aje nenek2 masi isa kena herpes or sifilis or gonore hiehiehiee

* Gantian ajis d yg gosipan ... atu hari dia dpt telp dr majikannya... dimintain tolong untuk komunikasi ama pembokat nya ... kira2 gini d

Pembokat : " Mas ... anu ... anu saya gatel mas"
Ajis : " Yang mana mbak?"
Pembokat : (malu malu) "kemaluan saya mas"
Ajis : !@#$%^$^!!!

Lol ... ga tau d itu pembantu sembuh gara2 dibawa ke dokter apa si Ajis yg garukin hahaha *peace*

Sekian gosip pembantu today ... laen kali kalo dikumpulin isi buat magz Pembokat Daily

2007-02-18T02:58:00.000-08:00

Happy new year for all my chinese friends :)
May u have a prosperous life in this piggy year ^^

I have 11 days off, and i have nothing to do or any plan to spend during the holiday. I was too exhausted in the past weeks , so i decided to have a full pigging days alone. I enjoy my loneliness by window shopping, shopping groceries, cleaning up, watching a bunch of movies n tv shows , editing pics ... etc.

It's very lovely to have some friends to chat with and i wonder whether he's oso coming back tonight ^^

*ciao*

2007-02-16T05:46:00.000-08:00

Happy Valentine Dear ♥

Em so worried to hear bout u getting into the hospital bcoz of gastric + intestines infection :(

2007-02-13T05:50:00.000-08:00

Marcel aka ndom ... the guide of Netherland ;D

with his plan on Iyung's vacay ... hehe

any one interested ????

“Around the ~~World~~ Netherlands in ~~80 minutes~~ 3 days”

Versi: 1.0 – 10 February 2007

Basis:

- Kedatangan Amsterdam Schiphol Airport, pagi (10:00)

- Bisa istirahat dulu, check in hotel praktis jam 12:00

- Hotel harap cari sendiri via website di bawah: (cari yang menurut keinginan pribadi, ntar gw bantu buat bookingnya)

o http://www.hotels.nl

o http://www.lindbergh.nl/Default.aspx?cat=4&TAAL=ENG

o http://www.bookings.net/searchresults.html?aid=301096;city=-2140479

- Transportasi menggunakan tram, bus, dan kereta ~~api~~ listrik. Memang ada tendensi untuk makan waktu di jalan, tetapi mending ga pake mobil, karena Amsterdam itu everyone’s nightmare. Parkir mahal (mending dikasih ke gw :P), kacaw balaw, dan parkir mahal (oh, udah ya?)

- Urusan perut (makan siang, malam) tidak masuk dalam draft

- Silakan pilih sendiri mau ke mana dari pilihan2 di bawah. Jangan lupa, gunakan pensil 2B merk Steadler :P

- Semua yang ada di bawah ini subject to change due to cuaca (hujan), delay kereta, dan/atau factor external yang diluar kekuasaan saya

DAY 1: Amsterdam

(terlepas dari kedatangan jam berapa / siap meluncur jam berapa, kalau lebih sore ya konsekuensinya lihat-lihatnya lebih singkat)

Ini jalan2 di Amsterdam centre:

- Dari kedatangan (12:00-an kira2) kita ke Royal Palace Dam (google: de dam)

- Madamme Tussaud’s Wax Museum (€ 19,95 per orang – bisa booking dulu: http://www.madametussauds.nl/ )

- Kalverstraat (tempat belanja… wajib…hehehehe)

- Pasar Kembang (alias Flower Market)… lihat2…sapa tau dapet bunga deposito

- Museumplein (= Lapangan Museum) àVan Gogh Museum (museumnya Van Gogh :P, pelukis), Rijksmuseum (entah isinya apa, blum pernah masuk)

- PC Hooftstraat (tempat belanja lagi… kwkwkwkw….ini yang isinya merk2 yang aneh2.. LV, YSL, Gucci, dst…dst..dkk dkk)

- Canal cruise (naik getek keliling Amsterdam) € 6,50

- ….terus, yang wajib hukumnya….REDLIGHT DISTRICT… kwkwkwkw (NGGAK BOLEH MOTRET DI SINI…urusannya bisa panjang)

- Selamat malam, selamat tidur… (atau kalau masih mau mabuk2an ya ayoook :P)

DAY 2: Marken, Volendam, Zaanse Schaans

OPTIONAL I

- Berkumpul di Meeting point jam 09:30 (sharp!)

- Yang ini kita pakai jasa city tour karena lebih cepat, efektif, dan murah meriah (daripada bayar sendiri naik kereta ~~kuda~~ listrik, bus, dkk)

- Harga: €28 per orang

- Description dari tourguidnya :

- Duration: 4,5 hours

This tour shows the typical Dutch countryside of polders and little canals on the way to the ' Zaanse Schans', a well - known windmill village with many interesting windmills. We will be visiting a wooden shoemaker here. Then we move on to the world-famous fishing villages of Volendam and Marken - on the coast of the former Zuiderzee (now called Ijselmeer). With its wooden houses and locals wearing their colourful style of dress. On the way, we will stop at one of the very few cheese farms where the cheese is still made in the traditional way.

You have to book at least 24 hors prior to departure to garantuee availability!

Period: Daily

OPTIONAL II

kita berangkat sendiri, dengan konsekuensi:

- Waktu bisa lebih leluasa, bisa “suka-suka gue” :P

- Tidak ada guide (nyasar adalah ide bagus :P)

- Transport lihat perincian di bawah, harga per orang, pulang-pergi

-. Amsterdam-Zaanse Schaans € 4,60 0:30 kereta

-. Zaanse-Schans-Volendam € 7,00 1:10 bus

- Biaya bisa lebih kalau mau masuk museum-2 yang ada di Zaanse Schans. Daypass €12,50. Kalau mau sama boat trip €18,00.

- Kita nggak ke Marken (Zuiderzee / Ijselmeer) – tapi kalau mau ke Marken, dari Volendam bisa naik kapal, €6,75

Pulangnya dari option I kira2 jam 15:00;

Option II tergantung dari diri sendiri, mau keliling sampe gempor ya jam 9 malem bisa...

PERTANYAANNYA:

- Kalau option I (15:00) mau terus ke mana? Keliling Amsterdam lagi? Makan? Any wishlist?

- Kalau option II, kayaknya udah capek deh… jadi langsung balik hotel?

DAY 3: PILIH SENDIRI

Ini silakan pilih: (harga tetap per person)

Optional I: Madurodam, Scheveningen Beach, Delft

- Berangkat jam 10:00

- Madurodam: http://www.madurodam.nl à miniatur Belanda € 13,00

- Scheveningen Beach € 0,00

- Delft: porselen Delftscheblauw (porselen biru2) € 0,00

- Old Church *tempat kuburan raja2 Belanda* € 2,00

- dan keliling (belanja ?)

- Transport :

Kereta Amsterdam – Den Haag : € 11,90 (kereta)

Tram Den Haag – Madurodam : € 1,35

Madurodam – Scheveningen : € 0,90

Scheveningen – Delft : € 1,80

Optional II: Keukenhof

- Kebun bunga tulip, mawar, melati, semuanya indah :P

- http://www.keukenhof.nl

- Ini memakan waktu 1 hari penuh, bisa bawa bekal sendiri (disembunyiin yach)

- Mekarnya bunga di luar tanggung jawab saya dan keukenhof, soalnya tergantung dengan cuaca.

- Transport Amsterdam – Leiden : € 8,40

- Stasiun Leiden – Keukenhof (+ tiket masuk) : € 17,00

NOTE:

- Transport tour, tiket masuk, dan transport Delft-Amsterdam saya tolong dibayarin

- Guide fee terserah anda

- Ini draft menurut perhitungan saya pribadi, jadi jadwal flexibel, kalau ada yang mau diubah menurut selera pribadi, silakan kontak saya.

- Kalau bisa 4 hari, lebih bagus lagi, jadi bisa keempat-empatnya (termasuk Keukenhof)

CONTACT:

Email: marcel@marcellinosantoso.com

HP +31 6 4343 6526

MSN marcellino@hotmail.com

2007-02-13T05:34:00.000-08:00

Working life is like hell around chinese new year!!

Em so exhausted coz my boss n i gotta make sure tat every worker r fine n not making any trouble on Chinese new year (>.<)
Some of my workers got sick and some of them coz trouble n oso got trouble :(

Last week, i've just sent one home to Indonesia coz she acts like a slut here. She is only 24, n she is not suitable to be a maid. I just found out that she spent most of her money and she took days off on weekend which are not allowed by us. When i checked her cellphone, i found out so many shocking sms. Those sms r about sex, boyfriend, sexual device *lol* ... n "rapet wangie" ... so on bla bla. It is our responsibility to take care of those workers and also the employer. Can u imagine, if she got sexual disease ... then the whole family will infected too considering tat the maid who does the laundry. So, my boss n I decided to sent her back home secretly . Then... today i still feel guilty (>.<) bout it.

Yesterday is another case. This time, the employer is the one who is a reallll asshole. The employer is a very stingy family and they thought tat a worker is not supposed to spend her money on snacks and a worker is not a human being. Geez ... i m sick of old people here. They r loud ... they r smelly ... they r dirty ... they r noisy ... they like to scold people without knowing that they r soooo annoying, and... what i hate the most is: ThEY sprayed saliva while their talking. I just cant stand it!!!! I pity my workers who got scolded every day!

urgh... need a break :(

2007-02-11T01:18:00.000-08:00

It's iyung's time to travel around Europe this year!!!
Working in Prudential Group sounds not bad at all. He wondered whether iO is available to be their guide :) Unfortunately, it's a bad time :( iO will be a super busy person to the upcoming 3 months.

So, I introduced marcel a.k.a condom to iYong to be the guide in Netherland. As you have to know, ndom is well known in redlight district :P It's a huge regret tat i din watch his "live" show last year :P Ndom offers pretty nice tour plan, nyesel jg ga ketemu ndom dulu hehe ... jadi kelewat d ide buat ke Keukenhof and Volendam :(

Arghhhh pengen liburan lagiiiiiii!!!!

Next year ... i m coming again!!!!

2007-02-11T01:07:00.000-08:00

YoOoo!! Finally i am alone this weekend ;D
Zoolay n ww is going home around 2 weeks , iO is going to Freiburg around 10 days.
So... it's me n Ajiz left here :P well... we wun do any sinful act for sure *lol*

I woke up earlier this moin , n dated my Jesus ;D I enjoyed my lonely morning and do the stuffs i love. I made a special noodle as my breakfast, retouched pics and I watched my childhood fave tv shows "The Nanny"!!! I almost dropped my tears when i explored the web he gave to me which provides so many tv shows esp the old one (ex: The bionic woman, sabrina the teenage witch , buffy the vampire slayer, beverly hills 90210, n much more )

Sooooo i think i'm going to be ok being left all alone for weeks wif those movies hehe

Lophe uuuuuu deh!!!!

2007-02-07T19:28:00.000-08:00

My sinful act : Nonton Film Indo!
Tittle : Inikah rasanya cinta ... film ga tau dr jaman kapan, dpt dr si aris -_-

Nonton film indo emang bisa bikin dosa banged , pa lagi kalo nonton nya ma zoolay.
Bukannya film indo nya forno or gimana geto, however ada aja yg isa di komenin :

- Dandanan yg terlalu menor lah
- Pemeran org jahatnya berlebihan banged!! dr dandanan eyeliner yg kaya setan, mulut miring2 mencibir, ama tereak2an marah nya yg over abis ! ... (kesimpulan : Sinting!)
- Rambut pemeran utama cewe pasti panjang tebel item kaya tkw2 filipino :P
- Kalo lagi seru2nya bisa aja ada angin n ditiup berkibar2 ... hello Jakarta mana ada angin geto sih! adanya banjir kali ...
- Yg bukan pemeran utama rambut nya medok ga karuan kaya mbak2
- Gaya nembak yg ga masuk di akal ( masa pake mic pengumuman di peron kereta api!)
- Di peron ga ada gelandang ama abang2 jualan ... ga realistis banged haha
- Pemeran2 sampingan nenek2 abang2 tante2 di peron isa ikutan nangis jg ... ngerti jg kaga coba!
- Gaya nembak slalu : "selama ini gua sadar kalo gua juga sayang elo" (*merinding)
- Cuma mo liburan panjang gayanya kaya bakal pegi ga balik2 lagi ... sampe peluk2an segala ma temen2 ... kayanya pas g pindah tw ga ampe senorak itu d :P soal nya smua temen gua jg ikutan pindah tw hiehei so ga ada yg namanya peluk2an, ada jg cengengesan n geret2 koper
- Si abang2 pemeran sampingan ikut2an tepok tangan tereak " terima! terima!" ngelilingin si sejoli ... blah!

Adohh pokonya eke ma jule uda tereak2 jijay "KAPAN INI FILM SELESAIIIIII"

Pokonya g ga bole nonton film indo lagi! dr pd bikin dosa ama kesel hahaha

Jijay bajay!!

2007-02-06T19:23:00.000-08:00

I love the way we communicate ♥

2007-02-04T07:05:00.000-08:00

Fika is going back for good today. The feeling is so weird ... u know. We used to be togetha since we were 4 :P We weren't a best friend when we was kids ... however our friendship grew as we were in the senior high then we took a study tour in 1999 then again we decided to continue our study in taiwan togetha.

It's kinda sad knowing tat she's not in taiwan anymore ...
Taipei is not as exciting as before
Taipei is not a special city anymore where we can gather n shop togetha like before
We will get lost among the Shinkong Mitsukoshi in Taipei 101
Mango will lose one of their customers :P n oso those Korean resto heiheie

Doeh ka ... kok ente duluan yg pulang ya ... (>.<)

I will see her soon this March ... perhaps...
On the other side, yenlink is much more blue than me ... coz she never know when she will meet fika again.

Hiks ... oh em so blueeeeee

2007-02-04T05:32:00.000-08:00

Encim2 or obasang2 or apek2 drive me crazy day by day!!!
Bukannya eke sentimen or benci orang tua , but hell ... tiap pagi mesti empet2an di bus bareng masi isa eke tahan. Bagian yg terBT itu pas mo turun bus nya!!! g uda telat , ga dikasi lewat ... jalan dah lambet ... bawa dorongan sayur ... disalip ngomel ...
G bantai smua tar!!! anjeng!

2007-02-02T05:39:00.000-08:00

Chinese new year is comin soon , as a tradition here, company usually treats the workers a luxurious dinner + bonus & 'Ang Bao"...

So, another company (our head company in Tai Zhong actually) invited us to join their dinner.
It was the suck-est dinner I've ever had in Taiwan!!! Bcoz of a moron director, we gotta eat vegetarian thingie. Vegetarian food has such a weird smell n taste. I would be grateful if they served caesar salad ... but no ... they served us so many weird stuffs such as fake meetballs, fake chicken, fake fish , fake sashimi ... etc. (one of the food looks like pedigree!!)

I dont know what r in those vegetarian's mind. I hate those who dun eat meat bcoz they religion said so and they still eating the fake one. I appreciate those who only eat vegies for the sake of their on health.

Grrrr ... wat a tiring day! Lucky me I got 2000 nt and a brand new phillip's which costs around 699 nt!

I'm gonna spend the 2000 nt for shoes!!! to kick some ass ... hiak hiak!

2007-01-28T05:14:00.000-08:00

Ternyata ...Paela itu enakh hehe ...
Kok mirip nasi padang??? ato eke yg lagi ngidem nasi padang ;D
Well... fika yenlink n I gathered up again ... considering tat fika's going back for good next week.
We hit an Italian resto , and i wonder how can they have Paela which is a spanish food in the menu ... watever ... it tastes good anyway.

Bagkrut oh bangkrut ... masi jauh dr tgl gajian yeh (>.<) ... ude 2 hr makan enak n mahal slurp slurp ....one more week to go, n money will come to me HoHoHo...

2007-01-26T19:23:00.000-08:00

gals time!!! Me hanged out with Turtles ( zoolay, ww, mongwei n Pei2) hiehie
Location : Thailand cuisine buffet

We all ate like crazy ... we ordered around 32 kinds of cuisines plus thai cakes n MoMochAcHa ...
The waitress is nice and she gave us a strange look everytime we called her to order another new food *grin*

Yes yes yes we are the MONSTERSSSSS hiaahiaha

2007-01-24T19:44:00.000-08:00

a question from Fs Bulletin which brings ideas to blog it down :

"What is your FAVE fairy tale?"
ans: NONE

For me fairies dun exist! The imagination of snowy white and the 7 dwarfs or midgets r freakin me out *lol*
Dear cinderalla, ... if ur step mom was tat cruel ... just kill her :p ...chrystal shoes r impossibly worn ... euw tats must be hurt
Dear Princess aurora ... ga ada kerjaan ye maen2 jarum pintal!
Dear Jasmie ... fired Jafar!
Dear Belle ... kiss the beast quickly or give him pedigree
Dear Ariel ... get real ok!

Hiahiahia .... cruel me :P

2007-01-24T19:35:00.000-08:00

Em thinking of creating a new blog for 2007 ... n using my own skin ;D However the lazy me always lack of inspiration and i end up doing nothin every night except surfing and watching movies serials hehe. Thx cute for the greaattt website!!!

2007-01-04T20:44:00.000-08:00

Days r so GREATTTT ;D
I've listed the best things u can have in Indonesia:
* No need to care bout house chores
* Good FOODS
* be a lazy pig
* Lots of novels
* nice & cheap movie theatere ( i watched "Eragon" "Midnight at the Museum" & " The Curse of Golden flower" ... while the other movies r suck!!! => pocong 2 lah ... rumah hantu lah ... indo yg uda cukup serem ditambah ama film2 setan lagi ... blah)
* Cuddling my sista
* No need to spend my own money *grin*
* Nude massage ... yummy ...
* a Loyal Bro ... who drives me everywhere, pays everythin :P, sparring partner n oso gossip partner
* lots lots d

My dad is slimmer but healthy :) He holds my hand to everywhere and smiles naughtily while his fwens tease him for having a "xiao lao po" hehe

My mommy as pretty and pettite as always

My sista ... grows bigger! She's 43 kg while I m only 45-47 kg (>.<)" ... but still cute n talented. She's encountered her puppy love period. She crushes on somebody, who can beat her in the Math class. I taped my sista's performances ... enjoy!!

My bro ... he's nice as my lil bro ... acts like big bro who drives me and pays for everything i shopped :P Unfortunatelly his brain is infected by those malayu and cantonese bodoh which increasing his capability cursing in those lang ... ck ck ... ... kadang galak belebeh n mudah ngamuk pake malayu... "Mahai neh!" " dasar Cine Budu! ... hari2 melacap saje!" ...kekeke...

My step mom is super busy this year ... luckily we still spent times in 21 theatere, timezone and diamond togetha...

My youngest auntie ... n oso my sista!! The one who drives me back and forward to the skin medical clinic ... havin spa togetha ... eating ... even visiting doctor :P

20 days vacation only .... not enuf !!! hiks hiks hiks *sob*

2007-01-01T03:18:00.000-08:00

Finally ... 2006 is ended sweetly.
I've been through so many obstacles and lesson during 2006 .
Shit happened lots of times during the year ...
...while the other hand someway somehow love also leads someone to be a selfish human being.

So ... at least i spent my first x'mas n new year with my family in the past 6 years.
It was fun n warm :)
I am spoilt in the house again ...

Dear my dearest ... Merry x'mas n Happy new Year ^^
Thank you for the companion through sweet and hard times this year ... *cheers*

2006-12-16T20:40:00.000-08:00

The First day in Indo :) I was not thrilled actually ... i was too tired and i selfishly missed my own room coz i needed a straight 12 hrs sleep. Ofkors i miss my fam n em so glad to see them again ... maybe tomorrow ... after pigging

2006-12-11T09:00:00.000-08:00

Now it's 4 days left ... i havent had my re-entry visa done yet, havent shopped for xmas gift, havent made appointment with my skin doctor, havent had enuf time enjoying my sweet nites ^^, havent re-confirmed Lina's ticket for January, havent this .. havent that ... arghhhhhhhhhh...

2006-12-11T08:51:00.000-08:00

Excuse me ... are you having :

Feelings of overwhelming sadness or fear?
A decrease in the amount of interest or pleasure in all, or almost all, daily activities?
Changing appetite and marked weight gain or loss?
Disturbed sleep patterns, such as insomnia or hypersomnia?
Retardation nearly every day?
loss of energy?
Intense feelings of guilt, helplessness, hopelessness, worthlessness, isolation/loneliness and/or anxiety?
Trouble concentrating?
Recurrent thoughts of death?
Feeling and/or fear of being abandoned by those close to one?
A decrease in self-esteem?
Sensitivity to noise?
Physical aches and pains?
Fear of 'going mad'?
Change in perception of time?
Periods of sobbing?

Well... congratulation!!! ... You're having a major depression disorder (=_=")

2006-12-05T22:25:00.000-08:00

Hepi bi day Lina :)
I bought a cark choco cake and brought it to the hospital so my cousin could celebrate her bday with cake. On the other hand her mom bought a black forest too ... and in came up tat Lina's bestfren named apple in the hospital also had a birthday in the same day. What a coincidence ... anyway ... my cousin makes friends there. The coolest one is apple. She is 36, she is a professional photographer in Shanghai. She snapped 500 pics + edited it every day before a stoke hit her. She is a tomboy n fun :) Another one named Xiao Song. Xiao Song is only 19. A year ago, she got a fatal accident which caused her invalid. She had spinal cord injury (c1), broken bones in both legs n arm + lungs injury. Wow... unfortunatelly, she was born in a divorced f amily, her mom is a handicap ... she has her own maid to take care of her. She pretend to be wise but deep deep inside she's angry to the world. Her maid told me how she got bullied in the room by Xiao Song. Xiao Song cant move her body so she spits to the maid everytime she gets angry. I dun blame xiao song ... i pity her. In the hospital, Lina becomes much more wiser to be thankfull of everything. She is thankfull of her accident ... tat it didn kill her ... that she only got her spinal cord (c5 & c7) injured so at least she can move her upper body and still in the rehabilitation to practice her lower body ... if the spinal cord c1 got injured maybe she would not be able to move at all like Xiao Song now.

It is a special bday tat was held in a aisle of a hospital ... with a dimmed light ... M2M songs r heard from the physicall training room across the aisle ... 2 cakes ... fried meehon (chinese tradition) ... chit chat ... laughter ... gossip ... between Lina, Xiao Song , Apple, Nana(Lina'a maid who's an indonesian), Lina's mom n I ^^

Now i m thankfull :
*besides of feeling cranky ... at least i m healthy
*besides of feeling fat ... at least i can walk n exercise
*besides of feeling unlucky ... at least i m luckier than those guys in the hospital
*besides of feeling useless ... at least i can do lots things more than they can do

do u feel lucky?

2006-12-02T10:13:00.000-08:00

wow... it's another new week again. I've reminded myself again and again to post another new entry before the end of the week and here now ... the end of the week. My mood is ok again along with the end of my period day :) My work is quite interesting day by day. The novels I borrowed are nice ... I start to like James Patterson, but still ... dan brown is still da best!!! James Patterson - Cradle and All is not that breathtaking (just so-so, quite unbelievable actually), but his Mary Mary is gooooddddd! I m a suspense thriller mania :P I've been looking for P.D. James - a time to murder novel too ... but cant find it anywhere now. Maybe i need to visit Page One ... the largest book store in taipei one day. The period of reading romance is over now. I consider myself as an adult now :P not a teenager again who's crazy to taste the sweetness of romance *lol* which sometimes sounds so ridiculous.

It's 14 days more to go ... and i'll be sleeping on my own bed :) with my fave sleeping t back ... my mommy's aroma around me hehe ... I guess i'll be sleeping with my bro, coz his room has lots of movies and books ... n we oso can talk n gossip :P maybe we'll kidnap our lil sista to join us ;D
I've planned lots of things to do while i'm home ;D I dun contact any of my fren this time :) I hope they all can understand. It's been almost 2 years n a half tat i din spend a quality time with my fam :) In the past 2 years my holiday n vacay r always with io and i think both of us were a bit selfish towards our family. We enjoyed our togetherness and we forgot tat our family miss us too ... so since i plan to go back alone this year, so my fam is on the top list of all.

I am wondering for a :
- nasi padang -
- Baso Solo-
- Bakut sayur asin -
- new novels -
- another more free 24 hours to be enjoyed before monday -
- a spa -
- nude massage -
- manicure + pedicure + nail art -
- a bit warmer weather -
- a cuddle -
- a rub on the back till i fall asleep -
- a long walk in the cities of art to snap the unique old building design n structure like what germany n netherland have)
- double cup of gelatto ice cream -
- a bowl of grapes -
- a visit to metzingen again ... i heard tat Burberry opened a new outlet there -
- a cripsy italian pizza -
- homemade pasta -
- brezeln -
- -
- mama's talk -
- hair spa -
- visit to my skin doctor -
- feeling of secure -
..........

Arghhhh .... i feeeeeel faaaattttt *scream*

2006-11-26T08:11:00.000-08:00

Geez ... obviously today is not my day. I m havin my pms rite now ...badly :P
I'm soo sensitive over lil things and em not be able to accept any lil stupidity around me.
Today detest list:
1. wishy washy-ness
2. slow motion-ness... please... do things faster!!!
3. smelly taiwanese in the crowded place ...please, have u ever heard "perfume"? .. or at least take a bath and dry the clothes well ... it's so horrible to got trapped in a train n almost fainted
4. rain ... the moment was not perfect ... the rain suddenly poured heavily while em shopping
5. I do bargain ... but not in a mall!!! please dun ask me to do that ...
6. queing please! It's a real indonesian bad habit! i just cant stand of people who dun queue while waiting for a toilet or cashier ... i can explode n scold anybody who takes over my turn ... lol so beware!
7. uncertainty and unclear explanation towards something/someone tat I really care about
8. the fuckin bus driver who stopped far away from the bus station that made us walked in the rain to catch up the bus
9. the idiots who fake the sleeping action coz they dun want to give the seats to the elderly/pregnant/invalid people ... either in the bus or train ... (have u ever saw a korea movie called " the sassy girl"? i do really2 want to try the action of slapping those fake bastard *lol)
10. ...full stop ...

haha feel better now :P

Now... the good part of this day (so the day of mine could be balance between the negative n positive aura):
* Lina loved the vanila egg tart i bought :)
* I ate indonesian food
* I got 2 cute clothes for my sis n 1 for my cousin
* I got cheap accessories for my sweet room
* I love my new jeans lol ... the way it looks on me n the color + the ripped effect
* My ticket is fixed ;D
* I talked to my fam via skype freely ... coz they r in malay with my bro rite now
* Had a sweet chat ... really comforting and amusing
* had a large bowl of grapes to calm me down

hmm... the day doesnt seem so bad no more ... hehe

Oki... gotta go to catch up the latest news on ANTM cycle 7 :) ... kinda sad one of the twins got eliminated (>.<)""

2006-11-25T10:51:00.000-08:00

Dear God ... sowie for today (>.<)
the temptation for shopping is just tooo strong instead of going to the church.
Actually i did plan to go to the mass, however when Zoolay called my name in the middle of the road and announce " Giordano is on sale!!!!"... then we rushed to Giordano n picked 2 jeans for each of us ... lol ... it is really damn cheap! It gives 50% discount for 2 items. Since i havent got any outfit for xmas n jeans for a long long time (read: 1 1/2 year ago) so i grabbed one for casual n one for parteeeee ...

Anyway ... currently, i couldnt find any summer outfit anywhere hiks hiks ... i din knew tat i will spend xmas + new year with my fam in indo this year *lol* ... so i totally dun have any idea where to find both casual and formal outfit considering the weather differences between indo n tw now.

Finally, a sweet chat ended my day :)

It's just a great day ...

Thx Lord ^^

2006-11-22T22:46:00.000-08:00

Happy bDay Meyen ;D

Ps: c u in x'mas!!!

2006-11-22T22:36:00.000-08:00

Considering on my tight budget this month, i stop to buy new novels and start to explore a lil treasure in my school lib. There r not too much english collection novel, much of them r classic n boring. I've found some authors tat r familiar to me; Sidney Sheldon's ... several James Patterson's ... Amy tan's ... John Grisham ... Michael Crichton's ... n other suspense thrillers which authors i hardly knew before ... well one by one but sure I'm gonna use our lib facility as much as i can b4 completely graduating :P

Current mood : Happy ^^ ... relax

Current song : a random advertising on the radio

Current book : Cradle & All - James Patterson (so far the book is fascinating enuf)

I had so much fun last nite ... (^,^)

2006-11-21T00:01:00.000-08:00

Ive just found out another uniqure fact bout him since I shared my passion of Dan Brown's masterpieces. He falls in love with the Da vinci code trilogy, bc he's such a freakk of symbols and anything tat relates to that. He's crazy bout finding another extraordinary facts behind the history. He hunts the article bout "Hollow earth theory" ... illuminaty ... the atlantic city ... the bible of ennoch ... etc etc. He even gave me 3 hr video of Jordan Maxwell, talking bout how astrlogy relates to the bible :P

Geez... haha I've never thought bout tat stuffs detailly :P ... or it could be said that i dun care bout it at all as long as those things wun effect my daily life, however i'd like to hear bout the stories from him as is he's my storyteller lol ... It's quite interesting in fact ... even though i dun 100% agree of the contents. I've never ever doubt of our Lord (Jesus)'s existance, but I doubt the facts that the bible or Qoran or watever they brought from the past. No one can guarantee that the scripts r 100% authentic and really happened in the past. The perception of religion is a way to heaven is totally twisted! No wonder so many people shout " Aulloh huakhbar!!: while killing :P .. oki no offense ya ... dun get mad for those moslems... the same thing happens to us Christian too ... going for a confession after killing someone :P see... a religion is actions!

See wat i got from a frend of mine's blog :

BERAGAMA YANG TIDAK KORUPSI
Dikutip Dari Sarikata.com
Suatu kali Emha Ainun Nadjib ditodong pertanyaan beruntun. "Cak Nun", kata sang penanya, "misalnya pada waktu bersamaan tiba-tiba sampeyan menghadapi tiga pilihan, yang harus dipilih salah satu: pergi ke masjid untuk shalat Jumat, mengantar pacar berenang, atau mengantar tukang becak miskin ke rumah sakit akibat tabrak lari, mana yang sampeyan pilih?". Cak Nun menjawab lantang, "Ya nolong orang kecelakaan". "Tapi sampeyan kan dosa karena tidak sembahyang?", kejar si penanya. "Ah, mosok Gusti Allah ndeso gitu", jawab Cak Nun. "Kalau saya memilih shalat Jumat, itu namanya mau masuk surga tidak ngajak-ngajak", katanya lagi. "Dan lagi belum tentu Tuhan memasukkan ke surga orang yang memperlakukan sembahyang sebagai credit point pribadi".
Bagi kita yang menjumpai orang yang saat itu juga harus ditolong, Tuhan tidak berada di masjid, melainkan pada diri orang yang kecelakaan itu. Tuhan mengidentifikasikan dirinya pada sejumlah orang. Kata Tuhan: kalau engkau menolong orang sakit, Akulah yang sakit itu. Kalau engkau menegur orang yang kesepian, Akulah yang kesepian itu. Kalau engkau memberi makan orang kelaparan, Akulah yang kelaparan itu.
Seraya bertanya balik, Emha berujar, "Kira-kira Tuhan suka yang manadari tiga orang ini. Pertama, orang yang shalat lima waktu, membaca al-quran, membangun masjid, tapi korupsi uang negara. Kedua, orang yang tiap hari berdakwah, shalat, hapal al-quran, menganjurkan hidup sederhana, tapi dia sendiri kaya-raya, pelit, dan mengobarkan semangat permusuhan. Ketiga, orang yang tidak shalat, tidak membaca al-quran, tapi suka beramal, tidak korupsi, dan penuh kasih sayang?" Kalau saya, ucap Cak Nun, memilih orang yang ketiga. Kalau korupsi uang negara, itu namanya membangun neraka, bukan membangun masjid. Kalau korupsi uang rakyat, itu namanya bukan membaca al-quran, tapi menginjak-injaknya. Kalau korupsi uang rakyat, itu namanya tidak sembahyang, tapi menginjak Tuhan. Sedang orang yang suka beramal, tidak korupsi, dan penuh kasih sayang, itulah orang yang sesungguhnya sembahyang dan membaca al-quran.
Kriteria kesalehan seseorang tidak hanya diukur lewat shalatnya. Standar kesalehan seseorang tidak melulu dilihat dari banyaknya dia hadir di kebaktian atau misa. Tolok ukur kesalehan hakikatnya adalah output sosialnya: kasih sayang sosial, sikap demokratis, cinta kasih, kemesraan dengan orang lain, memberi, membantu sesama. Idealnya, orang beragama itu mesti shalat, misa, atau ikut kebaktian, tetapi juga tidak korupsi dan memiliki perilaku yang santun dan berkasih sayang.
Agama adalah akhlak. Agama adalah perilaku. Agama adalah sikap. Semua agama tentu mengajarkan kesantunan, belas kasih, dan cinta kasih sesama. Bila kita cuma puasa, shalat, baca al-quran, pergi kebaktian, misa, datang ke pura, menurut saya, kita belum layak disebut orang yang beragama. Tetapi, bila saat bersamaan kita tidak mencuri uang negara, menyantuni fakir miskin, memberi makan anak-anak terlantar, hidup bersih, maka itulah orang beragama.
Ukuran keberagamaan seseorang sesungguhnya bukan dari kesalehan personalnya, melainkan diukur dari kesalehan sosialnya. Bukan kesalehan pribadi, tapi kesalehan sosial. Orang beragama adalah orang yang bisa menggembirakan tetangganya. Orang beragama ialah orang yang menghormati orang lain, meski beda agama. Orang yang punya solidaritas dan keprihatinan sosial pada kaum mustadh'afin (kaum tertindas). Juga tidak korupsi dan tidak mengambil yang bukan haknya. Karena itu, orang beragama mestinya memunculkan sikap dan jiwa sosial tinggi. Bukan orang-orang yang meratakan dahinya ke lantai masjid, sementara beberapa meter darinya, orang-orang miskin meronta kelaparan.
Ekstrinsik Vs Intrinsik
Dalam sebuah hadis diceritakan, suatu ketika Nabi Muhammad SAW mendengar berita perihal seorang yang shalat di malam hari dan puasa di siang hari, tetapi menyakiti tetangganya dengan lisannya. Nabi Muhammad SAW menjawab singkat, "Ia di neraka". Hadis ini memperlihatkan kepada kita bahwa ibadah ritual saja belum cukup. Ibadah ritual mesti dibarengi ibadah sosial. Pelaksanaan ibadah ritual yang tulus harus melahirkan kepedulian pada lingkungan sosial.
Hadis di atas juga ingin mengatakan, agama jangan dipakai sebagai tameng memperoleh kedudukan dan citra baik di hadapan orang lain. Hal ini sejalan dengan definisi keberagamaan dari Gordon W. Allport. Allport, psikolog, membagi dua macam cara beragama: ekstrinsik dan intrinsik. Yang ekstrinsik memandang agama sebagai sesuatu yang dapat dimanfaatkan. Agama dimanfaatkan demikian rupa agar dia memperoleh status darinya. Ia puasa, misa, kebaktian, atau membaca kitab suci, bukan untuk meraih keberkahan Tuhan, melainkan supaya orang lain menghargai dirinya. Dia beragama demi status dan harga diri. Ajaran agama tidak menghujam ke dalam dirinya.
Yang kedua, yang intrinsik, adalah cara beragama yang memasukkan nilai-nilai agama ke dalam dirinya. Nilai dan ajaran agama terhujam jauh ke dalam jiwa penganutnya. Adanya internalisasi nilai spiritual keagamaan. Ibadah ritual bukan hanya praktik tanpa makna. Semua ibadah itu memiliki pengaruh dalam sikapnya sehari-hari. Baginya, agama adalah penghayatan batin kepada Tuhan.
Cara beragama yang intrinsiklah yang mampu menciptakan lingkungan yang bersih dan penuh kasih sayang.
Keberagamaan ekstrinsik, cara beragama yang tidak tulus, melahirkan egoisme. Egoisme bertanggungjawab atas kegagalan manusia mencari kebahagiaan, kata Leo Tolstoy. Kebahagiaan tidak terletak pada kesenangan diri sendiri. Kebahagiaan terletak pada kebersamaan. Sebaliknya, cara beragama yang intrinsik menciptakan kebersamaan. Karena itu, menciptakan kebahagiaan dalam diri penganutnya dan lingkungan sosialnya. Ada penghayatan terhadap pelaksanaan ritual-ritual agama. Cara beragama yang ekstrinsik menjadikan agama sebagai alat politis dan ekonomis. Sebuah sikap beragama yang \memunculkan sikap hipokrit; kemunafikan. Syaikh Al Ghazali dan Sayid Quthb pernah berkata, kita ribut tentang bid'ah dalam shalat dan haji, tetapi dengan tenang melakukan bid'ah dalam urusan ekonomi dan politik. Kita puasa tetapi dengan tenang melakukan korupsi. Juga kekerasan, pencurian, dan penindasan.
Indonesia, sebuah negeri yang katanya agamis, merupakan negara penuh pertikaian. Majalah Newsweek edisi 9 Juli 2001 mencatat, Indonesia dengan 17.000 pulau ini menyimpan 1.000 titik api yang sewaktu-waktu siap menyala. Bila tidak dikelola, dengan mudah beralih menjadi bentuk kekerasan yang memakan korban. Peringatan Newsweek lima tahun lalu itu, rupanya mulai memperlihatkan kebenaran. Poso, Maluku, Papua Barat, Aceh menjadi contohnya. Ironis.
Jalaluddin Rakhmat, dalam Islam Alternatif , menulis betapa banyak umat Islam disibukkan dengan urusan ibadah mahdhah (ritual), tetapi mengabaikan kemiskinan, kebodohan, penyakit, kelaparan, kesengsaraan, dan kesulitan hidup yang diderita saudara-saudara mereka. Betapa banyak orang kaya Islam yang dengan khusuk meratakan dahinya di atas sajadah, sementara di sekitarnya tubuh-tubuh layu digerogoti penyakit dan kekurangan gizi.
Kita kerap melihat jutaan uang dihabiskan untuk upacara-upacara keagamaan, di saat ribuan anak di sudut-sudut negeri ini tidak dapat melanjutkan sekolah. Jutaan uang dihamburkan untuk membangun rumah ibadah yang megah, di saat ribuan orang tua masih harus menanggung beban mencari sesuap nasi. Jutaan uang dipakai untuk naik haji berulang kali, di saat ribuan orang sakit menggelepar menunggu maut karena tidak dapat membayar biaya rumah sakit. Secara ekstrinsik mereka beragama, tetapi secara intrinsik tidak beragama.

Ps: it's just ok to satisfy your curiousity towards the unfound facts behind the history ... just dun lose ur faith!!!

2006-11-16T23:23:00.000-08:00

arghhhh .... i've just blogged about 100 words and the damn ie froze then gone (>.<) I have lots of thoughts that were not be able to written down here, so i gotta have it done rite now before my writing mood's gone. Let's see what i've been doing today:
- had my cereal in the office
- replaced some docs to its place
- read Mary Higgins Clark's (My Gal Sunday) ... very dissapointed :( it's a bunch of romance suspanse stories ... while i'm hoping for a full breathtaking suspense thriller
- interneting
- had shabu2 near my office :P
- interneting ... again ...
- had sum medical docs done
- read the same novel again ... :P I m planning to finish it today then borrow another one ; The Second Lady - Irving Wallace... i have the indonesian edition however it's in germany rite now ... the story is just GREATTT so i dun mind to read it again ... i wonder how it was not a bestseller book (>.<) while another crappy novel could be one.

brb ... my boss is calling

2006-11-13T09:58:00.000-08:00

Presented : Eugene ... the cutest baby in the world.

now i'm confused ... which one is the cutest (>.<)

2006-11-04T11:27:00.000-08:00

My current addiction ... Strawberry Cardina ...
I've had it 3 times for this week ... slurp ...
I have a sweet weekend ... very relaxing. I spent whole day in front of the pc, have a sweet chat ... watched lots of movies both cantonese and korean... ;D
I should spent this precious relax time before monday, coz on monday i gotta cancel my new job ... n accept another new one ... ^^
Finallyyyyy i m not a jobless anymoreeeeee!!!
I m planning to have a week off in christmas eve ... i'm going home!
Actually, there are various of feelings in me rite now, im just not be able to think which words to use to describe them one by one. There is a splash of sweetness, warm in the heart, relieved , n oso worried, both secure and insecure at the same time, thankfull, torn, dissapointment, loving n loved ... so on.

What a week...

2006-10-31T10:35:00.000-08:00

The interview today is quite well :)
I cancelled the 1st interview coz its location is not convenient to be reached by bus.
I quite enjoy the second one, they gave me 2 options... very tempting ... n im goin there again tomorrow to make a decision. So confused :P~~ we'll see lar... which way tat God leads me into hehe...

eniwei ... so much peep complained bout their relationship today. I m willing to hear their problem .. or maybe give valuable advises based on reality (perhaps! ... from my point of view ofcors). They prob is the same one... complaining bout their partner ... their unchangable bad behavior ... however those peep has been couple for years. So why bother now??? If they can change it n u love them deadly... so just accept it as they are... suck it up babe!
If u cant accept tat ... then leave them :P ... simple rite? it's useless if you fight over a same prob again and again. Prob wouldn be solved ntil one of them lay off. ... or maybe getting laid is the best answer haha ... :P

well... see ... obviously my hormone is taking over my brain function rite now ... so i'd better get going ...

*ciao*

2006-10-30T09:20:00.000-08:00

I had a great rest this whole week, and today i end my day as a jobless. I called 2 companies and I will have 2 interviews tomorrow ;D ... so wish me luck;D ... It feels much more secure to shop if i have a permanent job again :p hehe ...

Anyway ... i am addicted to Tyra Bank's show which is America's next top model. I cant stop checking the newest result who's the one is going to be eleminated each week :P esp the 7th season. I've checked another next top model series too such as Britain's next top model ... canada's next top model, australian next top model n oso Taiwan's next top model.
They r all SUCK !! :P The suck-est one is Taiwan's next top model ... no 2. is australian next top model. Coz the dun have Tyra the diva, Miss Jay Alexander the runway diva, the hottie Nigel Barker, The cute twiggie, the bitch Janice dickinson ... they oso lack of creativity ... fresh candidates... n so much more.

Yo .. go Tyra ... go Tyra... go Tyra...

2006-10-30T08:55:00.000-08:00

Dun u think this year is tough? I dun believe in zodiac ... palmteller ... or any other future teller... i dun even care what they said bout this year . However i feel this is year is much more tougher than the other years before. So many unpleasant incidents happen to anyone i know. I encounter several obstacles too ... some of them are just acceptable as various of life's ingreedients ... and some of them r really brutal. Lots of people i know around me lost their beloved this year. The facts that we can lose our beloved anytime without any caution just scare me and I am affraid I run out of time to spend more time with those people i love. I am so exhausted this year. I am. I just havent got a time to stop rushing from this crowded thingie. I wish someone kidnapped me then bring me to a place where i can rest and exhale.

My mom told me to absorb and experience anything either it's bad or good n never forget to be thankfull. It's not easy though ... wat relieves me is, i only need to be patient for 2 months more then this year will be ended.... sweetly perhaps ^^

2006-10-25T08:39:00.000-07:00

In these weeks you might dont know that :

* Lina, my cousin has arrived into Taiwan with her mom and my uncle
* Lina n her mom live in LinKou hospital for 10 days now ... just had a bone tranplatation surgery last week and gotta be transferred to a rehabilitation center
* while my uncle lived with me in the house , n the situation was so weird!!!! i had never slept with a guy before unless he's my partner.
* my uncle is a real traveller, he cant speak Chinese but he can explore Taipei area with a map in his hand while i was going to the office.
* I guitted my job ;D ... my boss got 3 persons to replace me ... one for the papers, one indonesian and one for contacting the Indian consultants... my collegues said tat I'm the happiest jobless person :P I danced n teased everyone in the office , i treated them tiramisu and we took a loootts of pics while my boss r away to Shanghai.

Recently :
# I m a happy jobless girl
# I go to the hospital everyday ... Lina n her mom r fun ... we chit chat and exchange novels
# I am a Dan Brown's maniac!!!
# Just bought a new novel "Eragon"
# em going to have an e-commerce exam tomorrow
# gonna visit my skin doctor
# gonna apply for another new job ;D ... wish me luck ^^
# trying to be a better person
# treasure my friendship so much
# calm n happy :)
# always have a good time with the dearest one
# miss my fam so much

i think tat's all ;D

Ciao!

2006-10-10T00:42:00.000-07:00

... 5 days off ...
... full of laughter ...
... sweet chats ...
... crazy bbq on the roof ...
... delicious indonesian bbq recipe by miss Zoolay ...
... amusing video n pics ...
... gals gank reunion ...
... almost finished Dan Brown's novel on the way to Taipei ...
... hugs and gossips ...
... Belini's pasta ...
... Caesar salad ...
... iTalian pizza ...
... shop till we drop ...
... cosmetics ...
... carolina herera limited edition perfume ...
... cute t-shirts ...
... flat shoes ...
... antique bohemian earings ...
... thailand cuisines ...
... goldie belt ...
... mister donut ...
... snacks ...
... Yenlink's handmade noodle for breakfast ...
... sharing Indonesian movies ...
... horror stories in the nite ...
... wrestling on d bed , fighting for a place to sleep ...
... tryin to get sleep ...
... private cosmetic consultant ...
... sore legs ...
... hugs goodbye ...
... trapped in the train ...
... relieved being at home again ...
... feed my fishy...
... chit chat ...
... laughter again ...
... a lil bit blushing in red ...
... nice movie on the tely ...
... a gut nacht chat ...
... a peacefull sleep ...

2006-10-06T12:30:00.000-07:00

Thank you God for the blessings ... please guide us always with Your grace :)

2006-10-03T07:49:00.000-07:00

Guys ... click on ur video google... then search for "Russel Peters".

This man is fuckin hillarious. He makes jokes by adopting cultural characteristics ... it could be said a lil bit racist , but still ... who care! It's amusing.

I laughed my ass off in the office , when io gave me the link ... since then i download all of his version.

He makes joke between Indian n Chinese, "tat both of this race can live together but cant make business togetha; coz Indian loves to bargain n Chinese wun loose any money in the bargain at all! and both indian n chinese are the biggest population in the world , so u'd better watch out... soon or later we're gonna hump u down ! " ... see ... it's only the small part of his 58 min non-stop jokes.

If u think u need a long hard laugh ... click this :
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-2579833089500205658&pr=goog-sl

-le chéri, u m'aiment ? j'aussi-

2006-10-03T07:31:00.000-07:00

I am taking my day off today :)

Finally ... i've been so exhausted for the past two weeks; rutinity and a virus called influenze had pushed me over the edge... till last nite as i talked with my dear, he agrees tat i should have a free day ;D

I spent 8 hours to sleep , then had my fave lunch around my school. I took a long walk around the school, visiting the post office just to check my po box ... the weather was great n suddenly i missed to be a student again. I oso visited the bookstore to upgrade any "interesting information" from cosmo, marie claire, elle... :P
I oso bought "The deception point" by my fave author Dan Brown. I ran out novels these days so I consider it's as a lil gift for myself.

The rain suddenly poured heavily as i stepped out heading home. I gotta rush since we had the appointment to have a long great chat today. So .. It's been a sweet day whole day long :)

Thank you for that and Thank God for this sweet lil blessing ^^

2006-09-18T21:56:00.000-07:00

Hppy bday to me ... happy bday to me ... ;D
It's kinda late huh? well actually i blogged it but havent been published yet ntil today.
This year has been a full adult experience year to me. I have my first official job n then i hardly have a free week for a real vacay. On the other side i find so many brand new things n i treasure my best friends here more than ever.

I received lots of greetings and surprises too ...
Thank you dear ^^ ... n lot lot thx u guys!!!!

Thx for the treats of 3 shots tequila, melon malibu, absynth, long island n B52 at my Bday nite :P
Thx for accompanying me till i passed out safely at home ... lol
n thx for the gifts oso ... ;D

Love youuuuuuuu ....

Mwach2 ^^

2006-09-13T07:11:00.000-07:00

Another new week again ... n another monday just passed so fast.

I got an emergency call from my mom tat said : one of our relatives named Lina, a 23 year old gal got accident in Jakarta. It caused spinal cord injury to her and she is not be able to move now :( so sad n shockin ... the fact tat how weak human being is. Btw, my mom said Lina's fam r planning to take her here... in Taiwan... to have her medical rehabilitation. well... isnt it a bit weird? Most of peep goes to Singapore, China or Malay for having medical treatment. Wateva eniwei ... i m gonna help her as best as i can.

All my stress r blown away ... thx dear ^^
Like wat u said : it's time , when its time.
Totally agree with tat!

Last weekend Zoolay n me cancelled our yoga becos:
1. our yoga center is next to Sogo
2. Sogo's having MEGA sale

But these 4 days heavy rain make us only can stare at our shoes instead of wearing it :(
Since i hadnt had my dirty clothes done for 3 weeks, last weekend i sent em all to the laundry ... n couldn have it back ntil today when the rain stoped for a while.

Honestly, i ran out clothes and underwear.
I wore mini stripes skirt + white tankies n jeans coat today... (lucky me my boss is out to Shanghai otherwise she'll kill me) ... n im sick of g-strings after wearing it for 4 days straight!
I was thinking to get a pack of one-wear panties if i still couldn get my laundry back today (>.<)
Geez... i wonder who invented G-string ... i'll kill him! It's a "torture" panty lol although it looks damn good haha ...
I din buy those strings on purpose... only for a few collection without wearing it ... but these 4 days pushed me over the edge to wear `em :(

All n all ... gal boxer is still the best!!!!!

ps: kok jd nyasar ke panty ya????

2006-09-10T09:03:00.000-07:00

Tiap hari mesti bersyukur , rite?

Thank You God ;)

2006-08-30T08:03:00.000-07:00

"Cil ... u r stressed rite now" ... a friend of mine warned me this moin while we were chatting. Then I realize... yes ... i m under depression rite now. Everything is so overwhelming n i do need a break. I do need a loving time with the peep i love rite now. Things r so in rush lately ... n i cant wait for the next month , when i finally can have my vacay to Korea this year. Finally ... a whole year without any vacay like usual so sux! Sux! sUx! tHx mommy for offering me to go home n have a break ;) sowie mom! em not tat free anymore ... have job n deadline to do :(
I miss my vacayyyyy arghhhhhhhhhh!

2006-08-29T09:47:00.000-07:00

Define + best friend =

Friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behaviour between two or more social entities. This article focuses on the notion specific to interpersonal relationships. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them.

Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating on a consistent basis:

the tendency to desire what is best for each other.
sympathy and empathy.
honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth.
mutual understanding.

In a comparison of personal relationships, friendship is considered to be closer than acquaintanceship, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and acquaintances. For many people, friendship and acquaintanceship lie along the same continuum.

2006-08-29T09:01:00.000-07:00

My boss is in Shanghai at the moment ... we said "yess... more free time n relax in the office"
In fact, i m so depressed in the office n almost crack up. Suddenly so many urgent things happen, urgent decisions have to be decided without my boss n bla bla .... arghhhhhhh stoppppppp!!!!!!!

I m so fucked up here... n the one who's my best fren wanna be just dissapeared n acts like shit!
Oki ... one lesson today ... it's not easy to be a manager ... it's better to be a manager's wife lol ... u only need to know how to "invest" money into LV bags ... Cartier's ... n so on lol ... see ... investment meh ... hehe

My dear colleque, Jia Yi ... has a terrible past life. She had been bullied by his ex hubby almost for 7 years, then finally brought their 2 babies out from the hell. She starts a new relationship with this guy, n this guy treats her nicer a lot. She feels so lucky then devotes her life fully only to this guy. She is a kind of conservative gal ... who thinks it is normal to devote her life for the one. However , the insecure feeling is still there. She's affraid of losing him, while on the other hand this guy oso be nice to the other gal fwens.
My other colleques who has been in a relationship for 8 years taught me not to be too nice to our men *lol* ... coz the nicer u r then those men think tat it wat we supposed to be n they act more like shit! ... izzit true????
In addition, Jia Yi accidentally got pregnant. She doesnt want the baby n wants to get rid of it.
I am so shock , plus sad :( why ? why did she "make" the baby while she doesnt want it? She said she took pills b4 until knowing tat pills effect her body n she stopped it months ago. So ... condom still exists rite?
Frankly, i am against abortion! zillionth people outthere want a baby n they cant even have one.

Maybe i am too naive ... all i need is time ... to grow up ... be more mature ... n move.

2006-08-28T07:04:00.000-07:00

Never give someone else clothes, shoes or sumthin like tat lar tat is not close to you ... tat's the lesson wat i got from my office. Suddenly so many ppl gave me clothes n shoes in the office. Start from my boss, she gave me her totally new t-shirts n thailand sarong coz she cant wear it ... those clothes r my size. Oki la... danke boss! However, then another collegues oso bring things tat i cant wear (bottomline: totally not my style) for me. She handed me a full bag of clothes a month ago ... then a pair of sandals a week ago ... i dunno wat then. I noe , i should be thankfull ... but dun u think this "nice" action oso burden me? First, i dun need tat clothes ... Second, so i have to be super nice to those peep just bc they've given me the things which i cant wear (>.<) ... Third, i gotta force myself to wear one of the things to the office just to appreaciate her.

The situation is diff when one of our good fwen gives us things tat we dun like ... at least we can honestly say " sorry ... this is not my style ..." so she can give it to another person or maybe she knows tat we wun like the stuff at all so dun have to burden us to be "fake polite".

See... think twice before want to be nice to other peep tat is not close to u!
Bukannya ga menghargai ... tapi malah jadi bikin g utang budi yg budinya g ga butuh!

The same thing happened to my other fbf too , zoolay. She was forced to accept some ridiculous clothes from her colllegues n she has no idea how to wear it n try to think another reason to get rid of that stuffs. See... serba salah!

2006-08-27T10:41:00.000-07:00

I love yoga n pilates more n even more ;)
It starts giving me good effects ... I dun feel the pain anymore ... my body is not that stiff any longer...
Hope can make a commitment to myself to train my body regulary again ;)

Yesterday i went to a new church which is near the nite market. The pastor is a korean, so damn cute! Hohoho... cant wait for next week *lol*

*mode centil on+

2006-08-26T12:59:00.000-07:00

When you love someone, n you love them with your heart, it never disappears when you're apart.
When you love someone , you've done all you can do, eventhough you set them free, n` if that love was true.... It will all come back to you - Forget Paris

2006-08-25T10:34:00.000-07:00

1. Gimana caranya loe kenal dia?
% dr jasanya Oom w3n ... mirc # indo_jerman ;D

2. Laki-laki / Wanita?
% laki2 donkkk ... tulen abis

3. Dia suka warna apa?
% merah

4. Dia suka lagu apa?
% J-pop metal , helloween , n other metalica bands ... but on the other hand he oso loves romantic songs... oldies .

5. Kenapa loe pilih dia untuk isi bulletin ini?
% bcoz he's the one in mind rite now

6. Dia lebih senang ngafe atau nonton bioskop?
% he hates bioskop!! uda gelep2 ... ga isa sambil ngobrol ... so prefer beli dvd or rent it, then siapin snack ...cuddle on the couch sambil nonton n kasi komen2 ... sambil ngemil ... or even sampe keboboan kalo filmnya bener2 ngebosenin hueheu. Ngafe jg ok lah ... asal cafe nya nyaman buat ngobrol n ga diusir kalo uda nongkrong 2 jam keatas lol ...

7. Pernah bikin loe marah?
% pernah lah ... tapi kok ga tega ya buat marah heuheu paling cuma sebel trus ude...

8. Apa hubungan loe sama dia?
% kebetulan berhubungan di hati

9. Dia berapa bersaudara?
% 3

10. Apa dia punya cita-cita?
% pengen punya pabrik ... pokonya ada hubungan dgn industrial ... n oso bikin cafe yg nyaman buat ngedon ... designya ... hmm rahasia hauhaua kali aja tar idenya disabot ma loe :p

11. Loe pernah liat dia nangis?
% yupe...T_T

12. Dia takut gelap?
% ga ... malah suka gelap

13. Apa dia pernah ngritik loe?
% ya lah ... buat memperbaiki sayah hehe

14. Loe pernah makan di rumahnya?
% ho oh

15. Dia takut cicak?
% takut hauhaua juga jijay sama bangsa laba2 n kecoa ... gemana sehhhhhhhhhh !!! eke kan juga takut!!!

16. Dia kerja/sekolah/kuliah?
% mencari ilmu dgn giat ...cieh

17. Bahasa apa yang dia kuasai?
% ga penting bahasa apa aja ... yg penting dia ngerti bahasa muka ku ... bahasa tubuh ku ... bahasa hati ku ... selalu tau apa yg aku pikirkan dr setiap expresi ... selalu tau apa yg aku rasakan dr setiap gerakan ... selalu tau smua d binun gua ... dukun ya?

18. Hal teraneh apa yang pernah dia lakukan?
% ga aneh sih... but always extraordinary! coz nekatan !!! n bikin jantungan!!!

19. Minuman kesukaannya ?
% lambrusco for wine ... sangria racikan sendiri for cocktail ... soda gembira kalo di restoran ... es teh susu coklat + puding, milk tea di pecinan Palembang n es teh tawar karena ikut2an sayah

20. Olahraga favoritnya?
% fitness

* Nah, siapakah dia?
% You Know Who

2006-08-25T10:05:00.000-07:00

Black coffee is totally a big NO for me nowadays!It tastes good but keeps me awake for whole nite long! Actually, it is oso my fault, cant help myself to use test the coffeemaker and to taste a real java coffee. Since i knew Sumatraen coffee , Sulawesi coffee n Java coffee cost 350 -500 nt in starbucks, i was so overwhelmed when ww gave me 2 packs of Java coffee for free . So ... kapok!

Eniwei ... my boss is getting better today. She treated us Karaoke after the office time, n they even ordered Johny Walker + 2 bottles of wine. It's quite fun ...;D

A bestfren of mine asked me wat im goin to do next. So many peep questioned me the same thing. I enjoy my work now, however i know i have to move out from Taiwan next year. Firstly, my mom wants me to migrate to another country. Secondly, I realize my future is gonna stuck here. Hope 1 year working experience is enuf for the beginning of adult my life.

I surrender to God, it's up to Him to make the best choices for me. I've set 1-2 destinations ...hope can make a good choice at the end :) I really appreciate wat Rio said this moin ... he wants me to think wat i really want ... bcoz this is my life n i gotta take a responsible decision for this, so if i fail than nobody could be blamed.

So tired to be an adult... but oso exciting ... ;)

I just cant wait till the time i can move to a new country ... having a new enviroment ...n having a brand new life ...

2006-08-24T06:53:00.000-07:00

Waaaaaaaa I'm back!!!!!! ;D

Since my working life is so suck these days (coz my boss' having a horrible mood) ... so i decided to blog here after got scolded hiks... well ... haha *cuek I caused my boss got scolded from one of the clients n then my boss scolded me ... so balance, rite? hiahaihaia

Recently, i m addicted to a Singaporean website : www.talkingcock.com
The web is utterly hillarious!!! btw not everybody understands singlish which i thought quite unique and fun. My mom n I used to speak in Singlish whenever we gossip n it's fun ;D ... well btw ... i try to share the website to anyone i know lol ... i picked a funny article of "travel wif auntie" n translated it into a normal lang ... then specially sent it to rio, hopping he can enjoy Singlish too ...however, useless hik hik ... he doznt understand AT ALL!!!! lol ... aaaaaaa ....so so for you guys ... hope u can enjoy this site hehe ... thx for ndom, a malay who claims himself as a chinese in redlight district, netherland *lol* (ampun ndom) ... huahua thx for the website ... it makes me laugh so hard in the office n i swear i peed a lil lol huahuahauhaua

Eh... i miss Singapore hehe ... anyone knows where to download Phua Chu Kang series??? Hope can visit Singapore next year n taste Boon Keng's Hainam chicken rice ... laksa in kalang ... n rojak again slurp slurp slurp ...

Oki doki ... back to real world .... giat mencari doku ... buat kawin oiiiiii!!!! hauhaua *ngimpi lagi dah*

2006-07-25T21:36:00.000-07:00

Things r being so rush lately. After my fam went back to Indonesia, I m trapped in my old routinity again. It is the "best" summer break ever! *lol* ... I'm making money during summer vacay while anybody spending it. At least i wun be bored. I miss my lil sista already. I smell on her pyjamas n the blanket we used togetha. Gosh ... i wish someday she could be here again alone! so we can spend a quality sista time togetha.

My dear 's just shaved his head. He is bald!!! but still stunning though.... he's still cute as ever...hihi
Well...it's been a good days this week. Very nice to have u online again, schatz ;)

2006-07-09T21:25:00.000-07:00

It's the last day my fam spending days with me here. Kinda sad ... kinda relieved.
There'r so many things i havent let them to enjoy ... there'r so many places they havent visited.
Kinda relieve though ... coz i am terribly exhausted ... i gotta work form 08.00 - 12.00 then accompanied them to play around from 13.00 - 23.00 ... for 10 days!!!

I couldnt sleep well too , my sis keeps kicking me out (she's cute when she's awake ... n turns to be a monster while sleeping)

We cancelled our plan to visit Jiu Fen... we'r back to Taipei to shop there ;)

I've just finished to pack all of their stuffs ... my room is a disasterously mess. They bought 30 handbags as a gift for our employees ... 30 pairs of shoes ... n based on our last year experience, we gotta cover all the stuffs with our underwear :P so the fuckin Indonesian custom is embarrased when he tries to check our stuff.
Last year my dad didnt do this trick ... n got caught by an asshole custom officer ... n got fined!

It succeed :P Since last year ... i always put my underwear on the top of my stuffs hiehie ...

Hoammm

2006-07-08T22:21:00.000-07:00

It's the first experience for everyone except me to visit a fun park. We visited Leofoo Village ... and everyone played like kids. Everyone got wet :P ... we nude the kids in the lady's room n dried their clothes . I took their "pornographic" picture while waiting the clothes done ... n got scolded by my dad when he looked at my sis nude pics :P

Oki .. conclussion: it's a fun day :)

2006-07-06T22:19:00.000-07:00

Finally ... the aircon was installed perfectly in my room ;D so we all can sleep peacefully again without the yelling of " so hotttt arghhhh!" from the kids.

2006-07-04T22:12:00.000-07:00

Visiting Thamsui ;)
The trip is not tat enjoyable comparing to the trip I had last year with someone. Thamsui is a place for play .. for fun ... for a game ... a good food ... n cartoon art. My sis quite enjoy the place while my mom n auntie was just so so about this place. They just wanna shop shop n shop till they drop!
I think i wun take them to any night market anymore!!! So I just take them to Taipei city mall ... n they satisfied :P they shopped like crazy.
After a while ... I just realized tat i lost my gucci shades :( It;s not the matter of the brand .. but the memories it brought to me last year.

Hiks ... nasib T_T

2006-07-03T21:57:00.000-07:00

Big big thx to Jeff a.k.a KobuLz!!! without his "effort" i wouldnt pass the damn database.
Finally ... over 4 years ... I've passed it!!!!!! Actually, i thought i would just give up... since my mom n sis were here ... i was just too lazy to study :P
I was a bit panic in the morning but Jeff calmed me down , "Relax, cil ...''

Now i know what by "relax" means in Jeff''s dictionary ;D

After 5 hours exam ... I am FREE!!!!

I took my fam around Shi Lin nite market. It was so so ... i think night market is much more suitable for my age, who can enjoy the foods without worrying of cholesterol or who like to shop cute n unique things. As for my mom n auntie ... they still searches some boutiques along the night market ... n my sis + cousin searched for cute toy n food .

Tired... tired ... tired.

2006-07-02T21:43:00.000-07:00

My sistas r totally cute! First they stepped into Taiwan ... they hugged me then searched for a vending machine. They put the luggages n looked around the night market around my area., shopped a lil bit , ate this n that ...

Last nite they all complained why i din have an Aircon! My lil sista din sleep and woke me up. We gossiped at the middle of the nite ... then in the moin we all had western breakfast ;D bf going to the church.

We visited Taipei 101 and ate the best Thai food ever there with Phika too ...
Phika took the kids to the top of eslite's, let them played in a quite interesting playing zone. There are painting tools + free wall to be painted on ... broadcasting area ... dentist area ... racer ... bla bla dunno i din accompany then considering we oso gotta pay the ticket too

So ... ;) not a bad day today

Love u guys ...

2006-07-01T21:41:00.000-07:00

I was so excited ! My step mom, lil sista (Brigitta called Tata) , auntie n cousin (named Alina) is coming tonight. I gotta clean up my room n prepare everythin ... jiao!

2006-06-28T21:50:00.000-07:00

2 days ago I just extended my ARC = id card in Taiwan.
The Taoyuan external officer acts like shit!!! a dead fuckin asshole! We quarelled for couple times and i just cant stand my self to face him anymore without giving him a slap so i just grabbed my purse + my doc ... n left!

I cant help myself to write a complain letter to the ministry of education. Currently, Taiwan is doing a pretty huge international study campain . However it is just useless if the fact that the internal officer itselfs dun welcome the foreigner here.

Taiwan is so ridiculous in many ways. The president is so ridiculuous ... at least Indonesian president have the "charisma" to be one .... mo korupsi mah smua presiden di asia jg korup!
Taiwanese point of view is also weird. They think their country is better than others ... but heloo ... dun have any tv? China is going to be the host on Olympic 2008! Indonesia has the biggest mall in the southeast asia! Taiwan only has Taipei to be proud of. What is good bout Taipei??? wat??? the crowded? the snob people?? the branded store?? we have it all!!!

c'mon ... tell me wat's good in Taiwan ... so the officer can be that cocky!!!! Other countries du not have any regulation which said how long a foreigner can stay to finish their study progress. It is up to me if i take a minor major! It is up to me whether i want to graduate now or next year! asshole!

2006-06-26T12:25:00.000-07:00

This is one of the Virginia's homework ... it's just for fun ... makin a poem by combining the natural words to describe ourselves ... and honestly, It is io's creation :P I am not really good in words ... hehe ... I think it's worthed to be blogged hehe

I am joy in your laugh
I am spirit in your beautiful soul
I am strength in your strength
I am yellow in your sunny days
I am white in blizzard snow
I am the unique "nocturne" that you created
I am silhoutte in your nights
I am princess in your dreams
I am a beautifull island in neverland
I am fairy tales in children's book
I am a rose blooming in the desert
I am christmas in june
I am springtime in winter
I am your pray at nights
I am your days in years
I am your minutes in hours
I am your Oxygen that you breath
I am your blood in your vein
Hush ... Hush my baby
Please would you stand by me
Please say you would be my everything
Please would you be my voice
Please say you would live for me
Hush ... Hush my baby
No worries my baby
I'll dry your tears for us
I'll dry your tears for love

Ps: Danke ^^

2006-06-26T11:53:00.000-07:00

Ude lama ga ujan2an kaya jaman SD dulu ;D ... manteb! Ga di sengaja siy ... sapa yg nyangka hari terik gini isa ujan deres malemnya. Well... dah lama ga basah kuyub neh ... it feels good hueheu
Yg pasti eke tepar sampe rumah (>.<) ... ngumpulin tenaga buat mandi n makan, then passed out!

I woke up at 1.00 am ... realizing havent met my baby yet ...
great to know tat he's had lunch. It;s too bad tat he has the same stomach prob with me today ... i think the herbal works too much in my body ... as long as it brings good effect than i dun care :P

I miss him :) In this moment i envy all my frens who can be with their partner everytime.
I envy Koem ... who lives together with Neo ... n cooks everyday ... hell You r gonna be a perfect MOM!
I envy Afnie who's going to get married tis year ...
I envy those couples who can watch the world cup togetha ... sharin snacks n yelling
I envy those couple whose BF helps her doing laundry coz my laundry is bloody heavy...

Gotta stop it (>.<) ... heihei

Eniwei ... I wonder how a "status" in Fs effects the message box :P

When I tried "single" status --- bunch of msgs asked me "why?" ..."how?"..."is tat true?"... ... n couple guys asked you out or wanna know r u interested to be their 'friend' or flirt ... *blur*

When I tried "in relationship" --- the msgs would be like this : "when will u guys getting married?" ( n suddenly the guys who'r really need a 'friend' r gone)

When I tried "domestic partnership" --- a funny msg asked me wat does it mean ... lol how can i know hahaha I dunno either :P

So ... there r still another status tat havent been tried yet ... however I am not in the mood to try the "divorced" ... nurunin pasaran aje! moso cakep2 gini janda hiahaihai

Diah diah diah !!!
turuuuu sekkkkk ....

2006-06-25T22:10:00.000-07:00

Yeyyy ... my exams r over !!! Welcome summer holiday!!!

Unfortunatelly I dun have any vacay plan this year ... I can't exactly. But I quite enjoy my first official job though. Finally I had a real sleeping time during these 3 weeks. I slept for 12 hours straight! .... feel so good bout tat.

It is not easy for having a job n school at the same time. I din realize tat I lived under pressure and it effects my sleeping and eating habit. Well ... after the exams r over, my fwens n iO support me to have a healthy life. iO pushes me to sleep every nite before mitnite. My collegues drag me to their herbal doctor. The doctor said tat I am HOT! Unfortunatelly, not that kinda "hot" :( . I gotta control every single food which I swallow... n consume herbal medicine which is soooo yucky! wat a bloody taste! In addition, I have to have it 3 times a day!

So ... my summer holiday will be filled with work , relax n exercise. Ho .. wait... dun laugh at the "exercise" word ... coz me n my collegues have a serious commitment to have it n I wanna build my trunk again :P

2006-06-14T22:30:00.000-07:00

These days r so brutal :(
I am totally exhausted n my skin is getting worse ... again!
I didn sleep at all 2 days ago ... finishing virginia's big project. I did it in 12 hours straight!!! without doing any stupid stuffs such as; filling bulletin ... reading gossip ... blabla ... like i usually do. i was like a zombie when I stepped my foot into the class. the worst is, so manyyy people r looking for me tat day! My mobile kept ringing ... till 8 pm... finally i slept peacefully ;D

During the rough days ... i am not alone. He accompanies me day n nite ... stands by for giving a hand. It's been almost for 8 months tat i didn ask him for a help for my assignments :P He said he missed tat. It's like tat being my superhero is one of his fave part in my life hehe
Well... you are ... n will always be ^_* , ok?

2006-06-14T22:26:00.000-07:00

Congratulation Phika n Linkz ... for ur graduation.

Finally ... hehe ... both of u r olllldddd hahaha *oups oups *
I joined Phika's n fam ... celebrated her graduation day n had a real great dinner in a luxurious Thai rest.
I m goin to take my mom there too for sure. coz the foods n the desserts r damn good.
It was soo bad tat i gotta go back home instead of stay with them.
Virginia's project is waitin for me ...

2006-06-09T22:18:00.000-07:00

I thank God for showing us the best way to take.
He gave us signs from friends surround us ... at first we knew tat the way we take was not 100% right, but we still kept it till God touched us through a fren. I do feel how much He loves us by not letting us take the wrong road of life.

I oso thank to the most righteous man I've ever known alive! ... It sounds too over , rite? hehe Well... after wat we've been through , it's only me who can feel how lucky I am because if it was not him beside me , then everything would be so diff ... everything would not be pure n as beautiful as it is now.

2006-06-07T07:33:00.000-07:00

Ewww so many days r not in the entry. Lots of things happenned actually ... it is me who's too lazy to blog it. So many things to do in a week which absorb all my energy every nite. I prefer to have a sweet chat and pillow time + korean series on the tely every nite.

I lose my mood to post any bulletin in Fs ...lose my mood to update this blog ... uninspired to edit any image ... just dun want to do anything.
As u should know i havent had my weekends for 2 weeks ... straight!!!!
So it's fuckin tired here...

In addition, today i just scolded one of the Philipine workers who's so bugging ...
plus ... i wonder what makes those Indian Agencies take so much time to find some skilled labor tat we require?
Currently, we offer a nice case and they dun even give any feedback!
It is us; Chinese who's crazy bout $$$ or the Indians r stupid?

Well ... if you r Indian or have any Indian friends, then u can contact me if u r interested on this offer:

Ming Cuan University offer a great opportunity for those Indian students who wanna continue their master in Taiwan. They only have to pay the tuition fee like the other normal student. However, dorm + food + accomodation = free. Language used = English.
The best part is ... they r guaranteed to have a part time job which salary is above US$800/month !!! .... bottomline the "guarantee" word!

See ... now u wish tat u were an indian hah ... hehe ...

2006-05-29T08:25:00.000-07:00

Our server is down!!! WTF!!! my documents for work r all in there *sob* ... so it's a totally bad day for everyone in the office .... grrrrrrrr....

2006-05-27T09:04:00.000-07:00

I've just had a chat right before i was trying to sleep earlier 2 days ago. I chatted with an old friend of mine. He is a good person actually, but .. in fact i am a bit irritated by his opinion towards my life n the way i choose my way. You know ... I do realize, maybe i am a bit naive ... n stubborn. So what?? When you were about to become a teenager n encountered so many conflicts, it was said tat a good friend is a friend who said the truth even though the truth hurts. However, i consider my case is utterly different! I mean ... you dun even know me! I dun know what i faced these months lately ... u dun know it is not easy to pull myself out from my negativity ... n u dun know how much efforts my dear gives to help me out from it. C'mon... if u a real friend than plis be supportive. I dun care if i take the wrong way, u dun know either which one is the right way. If i fail... the i'll learn. If the future is not like wat i expect, then i am still satisfy coz i dun give up. If i succeed ... then i know how hard to get it so i will be more appreciate it. See ... this is my decision. What i need from a best friend are .. supports and 24 hrs available shoulders to cry on.

So plis ... dun come up to me to talk some bullshits which make me downer. Those shit might happen to ur other friends... but it doesnt mean it would happen on me too. *knock2*
Neither of us can predict what the future could be.

Oh .. one more complain ... STOP saying "poor u"
I dun even think tat i am thattt pity. I dun even know what i should be pity for! I think my life is just fine ... n some peep might envy me ... or some peep dun even think tat i exist in their world, it's ok ... i dun care ... coz they dun pity me! Please tell me... what should i be pity of????

I am sorry tat i might block u for a couple weeks :P ... i dun want u to ruin my good mood hehe

I am in a good mood ... calm... n feel loved.

2006-05-27T08:19:00.000-07:00

Although the weather was sux, the day was still enjoyable. I spent whole day with Phika at the hugest book store i've ever seen ... I found my material but hell the book is so expensive so i decided to write down the points ;p thx to Tim Phillips who saves my life through his book ;)

After tat we chatted, gossiped, ate Korean BBQ then chatted again ... we almost talked bout everythin .... we oso admire Neko's blog ... really ... making tempe ... hell haha ... *2 thumbs up!!!!

I hope tis gurly day would never end...

2006-05-26T09:37:00.000-07:00

Yummy cinnamon roll during lunch time :P~~~

Reminds me how much i love cinnamon roll hehe ... my last cinnamon roll was from a crowded bakery at Karlsruhe about 8 months ago ... Gezz ... it was a huge cinnamon which tastes like heaven.

No free day for this weekend *sob* I was so lazy to bring my arse to the office ... soo i overslept n was late 25 min (>.<)... the worse was, i mistakenly grabbed the Tv remote rather than my mobile lol ... So when having a lunch , i decided to stop by to a mall near my off to buy a gift for phika ... ;)

2006-05-26T08:18:00.000-07:00

Arghhh Afneee.... how r u there???
how's the engagement???
Is everything alrite???
No one gets hurt by the earthguake rite???