Never give someone else clothes, shoes or sumthin like tat lar tat is not close to you ... tat's the lesson wat i got from my office. Suddenly so many ppl gave me clothes n shoes in the office. Start from my boss, she gave me her totally new t-shirts n thailand sarong coz she cant wear it ... those clothes r my size. Oki la... danke boss! However, then another collegues oso bring things tat i cant wear (bottomline: totally not my style) for me. She handed me a full bag of clothes a month ago ... then a pair of sandals a week ago ... i dunno wat then. I noe , i should be thankfull ... but dun u think this "nice" action oso burden me? First, i dun need tat clothes ... Second, so i have to be super nice to those peep just bc they've given me the things which i cant wear (>.<) ... Third, i gotta force myself to wear one of the things to the office just to appreaciate her.
The situation is diff when one of our good fwen gives us things tat we dun like ... at least we can honestly say " sorry ... this is not my style ..." so she can give it to another person or maybe she knows tat we wun like the stuff at all so dun have to burden us to be "fake polite".
See... think twice before want to be nice to other peep tat is not close to u!
Bukannya ga menghargai ... tapi malah jadi bikin g utang budi yg budinya g ga butuh!
The same thing happened to my other fbf too , zoolay. She was forced to accept some ridiculous clothes from her colllegues n she has no idea how to wear it n try to think another reason to get rid of that stuffs. See... serba salah!
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